When You Feel Losing Everything, Want To Quit And Giving Up
DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE LOSING EVERYTHING?
How life would be if you know that you can never lose? Have you ever think about when you really want something so much, you could have chance to never get it or have it, and feel losing everything. So what happen when things like that happen to us? Let’s see…
Many time we face situation in life where really look for something, look for being some type of person that we really want to be base on what happened in our past experiences and we don’t want to those reappear to our life. We tried to do all that we can to avoid so many pain and than to recover a new way living.
We tend to look for way to adapt to any situation even knowing the truth no one in life can adapt to any situation. We might find a way to deal with what is going on but for real we are not totally adapt with and accept all that is going on around us. The good is we can still find a way to be in the place where are without too much outgoing of full involvement that will not give us the charge of bringing out what sometimes will make us being a person that have inner fighting with ourselves.
We find way to accommodate ourselves due to the fact that we have something more and more important that have been the main reason in a far way before bring us to that place. That the need of being in this moment where we are was due to a life needs, purpose or goal to achieve.
Some people find way to easy filtrate in group and some others are more likely difficult to get integrate in some group of place that they find themselves in.
Not bad for always looking for the better way to fit ourselves in the society but do really all this?
Some people might yes and other might have different opinions. But the truth is real from the both side because each and every person have different background, different culture and different set of believe.
Feel like in the lost way?
Who are those that can adapt?
Most people have to ability to adapt to situation. We know that people are not the same in different type of situation. Some people have more easy to and others are less capable to do it. It doesn’t mean something wrong but sure enough everyone have a level of sustain themselves in front of what that present to them.
We all face difficulties and challenges in our daily lives. From all sort they come to us. By interacting, by see the way things going on that sometimes way far beyond what we expected. By not getting the result that we are looking after and some of the time we put so much effort, energy and time to cooperate with those challenges but not been able to reach out what we really need and expect for as the real and good result.
- We question ourselves :
- What is wrong?
- What is wrong with me?
By asking those type of question … we start to losing faith in ourselves, searching for what have we not done yet or what we cannot do and have what we want. Is the moment where doubt and self pity come to make us see our much we missing in life to reach and something and bring in our imagination that we might never been able to achieve anything or those things that is matter for us.
After putting so much effort and energy how come we don’t get what in heart we really desire?
Human being as survival mechanism have not being sometimes created to think of both side right and wrong, success and failure, or victory and defeat, win or lose.
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Some people have being able to really get themselves to be very much aware of what possibility that have in life from base on the past experiences and past experiments that some times there are chance of factor that we can lose even we have done all the possible way to gain what we were looking after.
We don’t have in mind that we can do everything right and the result get wrong or very different. the onlything that we can think of is feeling like losing everything even if it just something you were doing that went wrong. Here the big question Why I did everything possible and I fail so bad.
Why everything went wrong meanwhile I have been pay so much attention to avoid what might have being contrary?
This is the mystery in life that we don’t know about. Someone wrote somewhere:
life is so unfair, I might be sure some situation like that happens to that person.
What Cause that everything wrong?
What happen to us when everything going wrong around us?
In so many case in life, we try to do our best in so many way possible things turn into bad for us. Either in cooperation with others, in business, in career and relationship. All different have certain way and level of intensity that can be really affecting us so strong and cause us stress, overwhelming, frustrated, concerns, worried and even giving up.
And all the cases can be reacting different way and different manner into the life and each individual. Some might be rating very low to someone and the same might be rating very high to another one.
But the unclear point of here is you have do everything right and everything turned wrong. All your effort that you have put in those days, time and your action were turn around in vain. No result absolute went good and everything you do is bad and most of the case you become a human being with bad image and likely and wrong person from your encounter are.
No one can see that you have do even something good because your image turn to a different way of perceive through the others eyes. You become blur and unseen and a real true person that have done such good effort to do the thing you think about in the right way.
Nothing around has been set in your favor to bring the good to you. Nothing around you have been set in the right way to avoid bad one come to you.
We might admit to ourselves sometimes what we think that might good to do where as well wrong to be done in that time. As we cannot predict what is going to be happen we couldn’t know what is need to be exclude and eliminate by avoiding to do them and miss to do them. We couldn’t prevent to know that we don’t have to be in that place for certain reason that might cause you lose everything you have done even with so much effort..
When everything around you going in different way for you, or in different point of view for you and if you are not in to integrate your certain belief of how things can be going in a better way, No matter what you will do, will turn into against you and against your will. In a better way to say will turn back to you.
In that moment you don’t have really power over. Not because you are weak but because it is not compatible with your system and believe. As we know everyone have a certain believe that make them who they are, what they do and the way they do and act to those things they are do in life.
This is where in the moment in life you find yourself in a point of feeling you are losing everything. You have very good intention to do the best you can do but everything went into a different direction. You have been true an real to yourself and others even you couldn’t accept everything around you but your real person couldn’t show because too much things went to too much opposite.
And you might sometimes look to defend yourself but you alone is not enough to bring for you what is the true. You even try and try to adapt and be align with the system but you couldn’t and you couldn’t for real. You’re willing to do the right things and your willing to adapt with opposite situation by being underline to not bring disturbance went all wrong. Your true become lies for others, your real become unreal for others, your image become unseen for others and you feel trap by your own in the middle of nowhere. And you are the damage one in the eyes of everyone.
Do you ever feel that way? Do you ever been in this situation or some other situation in that manner. Have you been label as (……) by others meanwhile you have don t anything right and for the good cause. Have you been wondering what have you don’t so wrong that make everything turn so bad to you like that. Have you been bring this into your conscious knowing you didn’t do those wrong things to drag all those bad to your life.
Is the moment to reflect how much your life can be fall apart when the fears of being wrong take place in you. There are no places for you. You feel like down the whole asking for see the true in you but no one see.
And everything went away from you. Because you are and were too afraid to be wrong.
Having the FEAR of being wrong can really bring everything you do wrong.
The purpose of this article is to help reader to be aware and observe the unseen Fear that can every human being by nature have it from a low or strong stand point of life. Is the fear of losing everything that make you want to quit and giving up. You can kill this fear when you gather the truth at a consciousness evidence of lost.
Base on true fact experience.
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By Ernst Cenege Author